I understand if the parents are paying for the wedding or the bride still lives at home, but what about in this day and age where many couples are already out of the nest and are paying for their own nuptials? How is it construed as a gift grab if an aunt or uncle pay for the shower but the couple is actually paying for the entire wedding? I don’t get the rationale.
* Please don’t be rude and please read all the details before answering. Thank you!
Honestly, isn’t a bridal shower the same event no matter who pays for it? I DO think it would seem tacky if the bride threw her own shower, but other than that…?
I’d never heard it was inappropriate either until i came on here. maybe one of our enlightened etiquette nazis could tell us?
I love how someone keeps thumbing people down but won’t actually answer the question.
To whoever reported this: Booyah, in your face. I won my appeal and they reposted it. Quit trolling my questions.