my last 2 year been like hell, my family and her family had been asking one question when we getting married? after every 1 month she used to say yes and then few days later no. now what happened twice is something that i donot know how to deal with.
We planned to get married in jan 09 and i was excited and felt like i am the most happiest person on this earth and i told this to my all friends n family but few days later she said she needs some time to think and we should move further our marriage date. which i agreed to and I had to tell every one again that we having some financial issue due to that we moving marriage date furute how further donot know yet. so i lied to every one just to avoid embrassment. few month later she said she is ready and asked her you check yourself again and pls say only if you 100% sure and i have no issue in waiting for more time. she convinced me that she is ready. so we decided our wedding date to 14th feb. and like last time i felt the same happy and excitment and i did the same thing told every friend n family member. my brother n his family lives in USA so they booked their tickets and tool hols from their work. and now she just TXT/SMS and emailed me that she cann’t do it.
now i really feel like im an arsehole and donot have guts to tell my family and friends. all wedding prepration has been done like booking a wedding hall catrer etc. my most of the family member have even bought their dresses.
it seems a new year gift to me from her. did any one gothrough this?
and how did you manage this?